A First Impression That Impresses

You’ve probably heard these quotes before: “You never get a second chance to make a first impression” or “The first impression is the lasting impression.” Regardless of the thought that you should “never judge a book by its cover,” it’s human nature for us to base our opinion of a person on the first impression. Unfortunately, these first impressions can be the cause for many to be misjudged or disqualified as a potential employee, date, etc.

So how does one overcome such an unforeseen dilemma? Carefully plan your attire and accessories without overdoing it.
Gentlemen, it’s unnecessary to show up to an interview for a corporate job with “bling” on, unless it happens to be your wedding band. In addition to your attire, ensure that you’re freshly shaven with your hair combed nicely. Save the overpowering cologne for special romantic occasions. Have your materials together as well. Invest in a briefcase or a portfolio for your resumes, reference letters, examples of work, etc. And yes, please have your own pen!

Ladies, remember that you want to be seen as a respectful, intelligent and independent (potential) employee. That won’t be accomplished if you appear as if you’ve just made a pit stop while on your way to the club. Avoid clinging, tight fighting fabrics and outfits, as well as baring too much skin or cleavage. You want your interviewer and employer/colleagues to pay attention to you as a person and what you’re saying – not your body. The smallest things are observed (i.e. type of shoes you wear, color of lipstick, nail color, etc.), so how better to prepare for ultimate scrutiny than to make sure you look your best and, more importantly, look the part.

In today’s society of work from home mothers and fathers, under 30 executives, and the retiree generation returning to school, the preconceived images of said categories have changed drastically. You could be in Starbucks and have a green-haired young man on your right side who just happens to be the CEO of a software company; on your left side you might have an older woman who is about to start her shift.

Once you’ve “made” it to the point where no one can question your appearance, go crazy! Until then, be smart about your sartorial choices and remember it’s the little things that make a big difference.


Kenneth Hibbler, Contributing Writer